Fall Fashion 2023

Colors to Wear this fall

How to turn those trendy fall runway colors into ready to wear staples

Red

We’re talking Crimson, not maroon. Fire, Bold, Charismatic, Captivating, and undoubtably sexy. Red will be the biggest color you’ll see this fall. Head-to-toe red graced nearly every fall runway. It was featured in collections such as Stella McCartney, Versace, Gucci, Tom Ford, Dolce and Gabbana, Wiederhoeft, Tory Burch, Hermès, and Bottega Veneta. Just to name a few.

There are so many way to incorporate this into your everyday fall wardrobe, just be sure to avoid a few pit falls. Red can be overwhelming when worn head-to-toe, instead, go with a single statement piece. It can also look dangerously Christmasy if paired with silver, green, or gold. Instead, pair red with neutrals or black to allow the piece to be center stage. This color works well with our other big fall trend. Prep. Yes, you read it right. We suffered through the return of the 90’s and Y2K and we made it to the light again! The polished, chic 2010 preppy style is back with a modern flair.

Butter Yellow

Butter yellow will be another great fall trend. Butter yellow is not a yellow that should scream YELLOW! Rather, it whispers it, like the wind whispers with the leaves. Its a soft yellow that a first glance might look like off white. Look for this color in items such as shirts, sweaters, scarves, and skirts. Consider pairing with traditional autumn colors like copper, rust, white, tan, denim and our next fall color… olive.

Olive green

If you are familiar with my blog, you can probably tell I love the color green. Green is a color that conveys a sense of calm and serenity, maybe because it reminds me of the forests. Olive green is going to be one of my favorite trendy fall 2023 colors to play with. This shade of green pairs so well with that beautiful butter yellow and most of our other fall hues likes the yellows, browns, and maroons. I would avoid wearing this trend with orange or crimson red.

Black + Navy

You know the fashion rules your grandmother lived by? I’ll bet you have at least heard of, “No white after Labor Day”. Well, there is another age old fashion adage, “No wearing black with navy”. Yet on every runway we saw this rule diced to pieces. We saw this trend on as many runways as we saw the red. This color combo is riding on the tails of another fall trend, tailored fashion. We saw many designers playing with professional attire like pant suits, pencil skirts, and structured blazers. Look for tailored fits in navy and black and try mixing and matching this fall.

Tartan (plaid)

Tartan is a old Scottish pattern, what you might see on a kilt. It’s plaid for those you of you that can’t picture it. We saw this pattern in the Dior, St. Laurent, and Burberry collections. This pattern would look so cute on a skirt or scarf. If you want to get bold, try this pattern on a pair of booties.

Silhouette – Hourglass

And the pieces you’ll need to create it

Peplum

Remember when I said the 2010’s are making their grand comeback now? Knowing what I wore in high school is now a retro fashion trend making its comeback really makes me feel my approaching 30th birthday… I can’t say I mind this reemergence. I much prefer the tailored, chic, femininity of the 2010’s over the grunge, baggy look of the 90’s or even the tackiness of the Y2K comeback. I think the updates 2023 version of the peplum, will be seen in our wear like sweaters or coats. I don’t think we’ll see as many blouses, but we shall see.

Cinched Waists / Belts

The 2010’s were all about clean lines, and feminine silhouettes. As with the peplum tops, the cinched or belted waist creates the same desired hourglass you see with the peplum. Try wearing a baggy sweater dress and pair it with a belt to give it some shape. You could also pair a fitted sweater with a plaid or corduroy skirt and belt the waist.

Off the shoulder

We’re staying on that theme of quiet femininity and silent luxury. Off the shoulder sweaters will make an appearance this fall and winter once again. I have a few shoulderless sweater dresses that I know will be getting worn this fall. Try this look for your fall date night and give your honey a reason to stare 😉 You may be able to create this look with an item you already have. Check your closet for a sweater with a wide boat neck and drape one side off your shoulder.

Full midi skirts

Think a high-water maxi skirt. The midi skirt hits mid calf and looks effortlessly chic. The ultimate fall 2023 version is one with a very full, round, hemline and a tailored waist. It gives off an air of old money, the real version, not the tacky gen Z, TikTok version of it. (Please stop wearing socks with maryjanes)

Sweater dresses

Sweater dresses are a classic and will never go out of style. If your unsure on how to pull of the trendy fall colors, try looking for a sweater dress in one the top colors. Its simple and easy and makes an untraditionally fall color look perfectly themed for the season.

Styles

Elevated Basics

Mui Mui is a designer known for bold patterns and layers yet even that runway featured simple elegant basics. Think a pair of joggers paired with a slim sweater vest and a sleek camel coat. Think tailored wide-legged pants with a neutral turtle neck and a belted waist. The greatest part about this trend is the simplicity of it. This is one the of the easiest fall trends to emulate. You don’t even need to spend a lot to create the appearance of it. H+M, Old Navy, Target, and Amazon are great places to look for these elegant basics. Dillard’s and Nordstrom are great places if your looking to spend a bit more for something to keep around You can great deals on basics at dillards when shopping out of season. Some of my favorite brands are Antonio Melani, Chelsea and Violet, Gianni Bini, Vince Camuto, Free People, and Ralph Lauren. Express is another great choice for investment pieces.

Prep

I’ve spent most of this article referring to this fall style. Prep is classic and timeless. When I look back at photos from this period, most styles are still things I would wear today almost 15 years later. The trick with this, and any trend, is to dip a toe in rather than diving in. You don’t want to were sweater vests and loafers all fall, that would be a fad. There is a big difference between trends and fads. Barbie core, Grunge, Y2K are fads and if you go all in…. You’ll definitely be burning photos in a few years. Instead take the common runway trends and adapt them into your wardrobe in a way that is true to your own personal style and something you’ll still wear for years to come.

Tailored

If you work an office job this look is for you! This is the power suit era. This fall, embrace your strength and go out there and show the world what you are made of. Try this trend in combination with our other fall trend of navy paired with black. It will create a striking contrast that eludes to your might and capability. Dress it down as well and pair an oversized blazer over a sweater with jeans for your day errands.

Old Money

Gen Z has butchered this trend and turned it into a fad. Please don’t wear a pleated skirt with a sweater tied around your shoulder with ruffled socks and Mary Jane shoes. You may have seen this on TikTok but its not what I am talking about. Old Money is the simple elegance seen with the Kennedy’s, Vanderbilt’s and Rockefeller’s of the world. Silent luxury that doesn’t depend on a brand logo or a fad.
For this style, you want well fitted pieces, as though they were tailored just for you. Solid colors over patterns. You don’t need your clothes to grab people’s attention, you already have it. Get it?

Shoes

I think for boots this year, we’ll be seeing a lot of tall, over the knee boots and a lot of kitten heals (2in). Kitten heals have been making a reappearance for a minute now and they’re not going anywhere this fall. Many designers featured runway looks that were completely pant-less with their legs covered by tall boots in lieu of pants. While I am not advocating for going pant-less, I do think we will see a lot of tall boots because of it. Given the prep trend, we will also be seeing quite a few ballet flats, loafers, and riding boots. Fashion is a pendulum, we swung far to the left with the chunky sole boots of last fall back to the right now with slimmer feminine styles. I will likely skip the ballet flats for so many reasons and I would instead opt for the loafers and riding boots.

Accessories

Scarves

You’ll see scarves coming back around this fall. they’re another great way to incorporate those trendy fall colors without having to make a huge investment.

Mixed metallics

We’re breaking more age old rules here. Don’t be afraid to mix your silver and gold pieces this fall. Keep jewelry light, airy, with a delicate grace. Avoid distracting statement pieces and instead just opt for a subtle feminine touch to accentuate the shoulders you’ll be showing off on date night. You’ll see a lot of lace and bows in accessory items as the romantic Victorian look is also very trendy this fall.

Belted waists

We touched on this as well earlier, but a cinched waist, hourglass shape is going to be the desired silhouette. Invest in a couple cute belts to turn ordinarily shapeless pieces into ones that will turn heads.

Big Jim’s Farm U-Pick – Sunflowers

Big Jim’s farms

This is a must see before summer ends. Big Jim Farms has several varieties of U pick crops from August through October. Crops range from sunflowers and other flowers, green and red chile, pumpkins, melons, cucumbers, ect.

The staff here at the farms are absolutely amazing and some of the kindest and most welcoming people you’ll meet. There is no admission fee if you’re there to just enjoy the sight.

If you wish to take some flowers home you can rent clippers for 5 dollars. The 5 dollars also cover the decorative mason jar your pruned flowers will go in. They even prune and arrange the flowers for you!

The sunflower crop

Sunflowers are my favorite type of flower. They always have been since I was a little girl about 5 years old. I had this red dress with yellow sunflowers on it. It was my absolute favorite dress and I would have worn it everyday I could have. So naturally, when I saw this event pop up, I couldn’t stay away long.

August and September are the best months for visiting the sunflowers. The farm is open daily from 8am – 6pm. With September a few days away, there are still plenty of opportunities to experience this sea of gold. There is something about seeing a field of sunflowers that really makes your breath catch in your throat. The first time I saw this was when I was 17 and on a mission trip to Kentucky. On the drive there from Florida, we past a field of GAINT sunflowers. These flowers were much larger than my face and a whole lot taller than me too. This field went for miles. I’d never seen anything like it and to this day I have not forgotten about it.

Now the sunflowers at Big Jims are not of the giant variety, but they are spectacular in their own right. Big Jim’s recently moved from a 7acre location to a 21 acre field beginning this year allowing for much more flowers! The new location is right next door the the old. When you arrive you’ll be greeted by fields of sunflowers growing in rows that you can stroll through as you pick out the best to keep.

…if you dare.

WARNING!

This is not a place for those allergic to, or afraid of bees… the flowers are a magnet for them. You will be hard pressed to find a flower without at least one bee on it. There are thousand of them. Bees of every size, shape, and color. Bees I didn’t even know existed. Yes, know they are an important part of nature. Yes, they leave you alone if you leave them alone, but that does little to calm the fear that a bee phobia can instill. So instead I will tell you this, the flowers are just as beautiful when safely enjoyed from afar, as I did 🙂 Even while keeping a respectful distance we managed to clip ourselves a bouquet to take home!

We had such an amazing time and are already so excited to go again for the green Chile crops and we’ll definitely be getting some pumpkins as well. Watch out McCalls!

What I Wore

This is a farm so obviously dress code is casual. However, I’m not about to go to a field of sunflowers without having a little fun. Have fun with it and get all dolled up for the pictures, you won’t regret it. Keep your shoes in mind and there is a lot of uneven ground and dirt so a stiletto is not a good fit.

www.bigjimfarms.com

Date night in Albuquerque!

Adult night at Explora!

If you grew up in Albuquerque, or if you are raising children here, you have undoubtably heard of Explora. I remember when I was a little younger than my own daughter, it was a store in the mall. It was a place to take the kiddos to help break up the shopping day. I remember they had a bubble machine that you could stand inside and then pull a lever to enclose your self in a bubble.

Now, Explora has their own building. An entire 20,000 Sq Ft devoted to spreading the wonder of science to the children of Albuquerque with over 250 interactive exhibits with an another expansion on the horizon. I realized in my own adulthood that none of us really “grow up”, we just get better at bearing the weight of responsibility. We stay who we are, and if we do it right, we don’t ever lose that childlike wonder.

Explora understands this. They know that we want to play with the exhibits too, but none of us want to push aside the 8 year old boy who is drawing inappropriate shapes on the paper meant for the origami table….

This is why they started Adult Night. Periodically throughout the year they will open for an evening session exclusively for the 21 and up. They do it up right and there is always food, drink, music and more. Ryan and I never miss it! It makes for a wonderful date night idea. The even attracts people of all ages, you see couples that are 25 years old and couples that have been married for 25 years. Every one is kind and respectful and you get to actually play and learn just like a child. What is more romantic than eating butter pecan gelato on the roof while the last rays of the summer sun set shines through the twinkling lights hanging over head as the band plays.

The Science of Wine

We attended the science of wine back on February 24th. The event featured wine from various vendors, Charcuterie from Mtucci’s, and souvenir wine glasses.

The Science of Beer

The Science of Beer event was also catered by Mtucci’s and featured beers from over 6 different breweries. There were even demonstrations from local home brewers on how to brew your own beer. The roof featured incredible gelato from Frost along with live music from The Cumberlands. The whole event was so much fun and a perfect date night. This event happens through out the year so if you missed it, fear not. Just head over to Explora’s event page to see when the next one will be. Check out the other events and remember that every visit to Explora helps fund children’s education in our city.